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Tuesday, March 4, 2008

T.I.P. Stank MODE

Over the past few months life has thrown many unwelcomed situations and circumstances in my face- and right in the mist of it all, he put some dumb young man! In addition to not having a license, current job, change in my pocket, or the simple uplifts that make the teenage years so wonderful, I've been dealing with this boy (we'll call him X). And there's nothing wrong with carrying on relationships with people of the opposite sex, especially during these teen years, but when somebody starts to aggravate your morality and common sense- it's time to give them the "handz" because you're not trying to hear it! Nobody has time to deal with unnecessary jibber jab from from counter parts.
And for better understanding I will use myself as an example; so here's me and X. We were originally introduced by a mutual friend. He calls me everyday and we talk on the phone- oh no we don't- I do. I talk 99 percent of the time while he sits back and "listens." It wasn't always this way though. At the beginning of our "courting," we laughed and talked it up! And now he doesn't say much- if anything at all. The funny thing though, is when I say "let me call you back" or "I'm getting off the phone cuz you're not saying nothin," he pleads with me not to?- I put a question mark behind that last phrase because my common sense in those particular moments question his actions.
I came to the conclusion that this fool has no mouth because he seems to never have anything to say, or at least not the right thing to say. We've been seeing each other often and things are somewhat smooth between us in person. I'm not his girlfriend so I don't expect to go out to the movies cuddled up beside him or take long walks in the park by his side. We just chill, watch tv, blah blah. He's been pressuring me to be his girlfriend, boo, wifey, shawty, etc. But I'm not having it. Because outside of hardly saying a word on he phone, he blatantly downplays my intelligence. Who needs to put up with someone that outright disrespects them by talking about other females or criticizing their body. Plain and simple- there's no use in wasting time by putting up with people who don't do you any good, that's a parasitic relationship right there!

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